4th March 2009 Wednesday

I didn't know why it took me so long to get to a simple point as such - We alone hold responsibility for our own happiness and we alone hold the key to make all decisions. Then what is so difficult about making ourselves happier? Is it the fear in making that decision? Or is it something else holding you back from making that decision? Or is there a more inherent concern involved?

And if we alone are responsible for our own happiness, that would also mean that we do not have the responsibility to make anyone else besides ourselves happy. Well, unless you decide to assume such a responsibility. Then why are we so concerned about whether others are happy with us? Why are we so constantly worried about trying hard to make others happy?

Weird us.

2nd March 2009 Monday

人们常常爱埋怨这个人让自己不开心，那件事让自己不如意。但人们常常都忘了，打从一开始，除了自己，就没有一个人，一件事有责任让自己快乐。那，我们又凭什么埋怨任何人，任何事呢？是否随着年纪的增长，人们对於身边的人，事，物的要求也随着岁月与日俱增呢？若能把对於身边的人，周遭的事的要求减少一点，生活是不是也就能快乐一点呢？

其实每个人在生活上的步伐都是不一样的。能和自己肩并肩走一段路已经是多么难得的事，何必对於身边的人又诸多要求？聚是因为刚巧步伐的频率拼奏在一起，散是因为步伐上分出了快慢，频率分散了。没有人知道我们的频率何时会走散，也没有人知道我们何时会走到交叉点。但庆幸生活上有一段路是你们陪我一起走过的。不去想哪里是交叉分散点，只去想快乐，充实地走完频率相同的步道。。。