11th November 2006 Saturday

Read this off CY's blog:

"Why do humans always treat people who are supposed to be treated nice, badly? And vice versa. I know. Because deep down inside, we know those who treated us nicely will never leave us no matter how badly we treat them. And how about those who treated you badly but you treated them nicely? Because humans are dumb."

I couldn't help but agree with the first half of the post. But regarding the second half and especially the part about humans are dumb, I don't really agree. I think we do so not because we are dumb but because we love. And love has always been about giving and not expecting anything in return. So as long as we still love, we would continue to give and give, even if we get hurt again and again. Yes. You did not hear wrongly. It would still hurt. But one day, you will grow numb of the pain......

To cy: There are always more than one way of looking at the same thing. And there will always be one way that is happier than the rest. Even though it might not be the best way of looking at it, but if you can help it, always look at the happier way. It would make you happier. You might not be able to change some things. But you can always change your way about thinking about it.