You can't get hurt by something that you don't know......This is what we say when we try to keep something from someone. What we fail to realise is - the probability of he/she finding out is larger than what we perceive. We fail to see that when the person actually finds out the thing that we have been keeping from him/her, the hurt is much larger than what it would have been originally.
A trust betrayed is a trust betrayed, no matter for how good a reason........